YOU EXIST BECAUSE SOMEONE (YOU) DREAMED YOU UP!
Learn to love and appreciate your unique essence... you exist because someone (you) dreamed you up!
Think about it from that perspective and water yourself, give yourself permission to GROW, BE, EXPRESS! It feels so damn good, took me this entire winter to finally see that nothing is wrong with me, everything is right, abundant with gifts and unique quirks! We are not here for everyone, no point wasting energy trying to convince someone to see us as beauty! When we can see it for ourselves then those who are a match for us (soul mates/soul tribe = friends and/or lovers) will stay, we find each other, we like each other, so we find ways to share with each other.
If this doesn't make sense, sit with it... ask for more clarity, ask to understand and to see yourself through the eyes of Spirit (or from a Higher Perspective if you're not comfortable with the idea of Spirit).
Image taken from @sphynx.bibi